When you devote time, effort, and energy to a project, it can feel like your work is a piece of yourself. If you’re emotionally invested in your project or unprepared to acknowledge that there may be room for improvement, feedback can feel like an attack on your self-worth and erode your confidence.
However, receiving and using feedback is an essential part of growth. Helpful and well-delivered advice can help you improve your performance, verify and chart a path toward your goal, and recognize your strengths and weaknesses. Additionally, thoughtful reflection on feedback can broaden your thinking, address logical fallacies and help you overcome cognitive biases.
In the world of PR, we constantly get feedback from clients, journalists, co-workers and managers. Hearing and internalizing feedback without becoming defensive, offended or upset is essential to career success. But it’s equally important that those providing critique do so in a helpful, constructive manner.
Feedback is a gift; giving good feedback and taking critiques in stride are skills. Since these skills don’t come naturally, I’ve included a few tips on successfully giving and receiving feedback below.
Unfortunately, according to a 2019 Gallup poll, only 26% of employees strongly agree that the feedback they receive helps them improve, likely because of poorly delivered or unhelpful critiques. Feedback that is unwelcome, vague, harsh, uninformed, superficial, or that comes from a place other than a genuine desire to improve performance is unlikely to be accepted. Destructive criticism can say more about the giver than the receiver – take this feedback with a grain of salt.
For best results, consider taking this path when giving feedback:
Just as a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down, structuring feedback sessions in this manner can ensure that the person giving feedback doesn’t focus only on the elements they dislike about the work but balances the feedback with praise.
Facing mistakes or shortcomings can make you defensive or embarrassed and receiving feedback takes practice. Fortunately, you can build your skills in this area. Here are some key strategies that can help you accept feedback graciously and professionally:
Feedback is inevitable in the workplace, so it can be helpful to redefine feedback as valuable support. No matter what you’re working on, you should prepare yourself and expect that change will be required when you walk out of a feedback session. Make sure that you’re ready to work on yourself and your performance.
In a professional environment, excuses, negative reactions, and emotions like anger can limit your potential for growth. Accepting input, ideas and feedback requires maturity and emotional intelligence, though on rare days, you might find that you don’t have the requisite emotional fortitude to handle critiques. In those instances, be generous with yourself and take as much time as you need to process and address feedback. While it’s essential to trust the person giving feedback, asking people with whom you have a close relationship can backfire if they can’t be honest. You may also learn that certain people aren’t prepared, interested, or able to share the types of insight that will help you grow and improve.
For the best results, approach people who can give you helpful feedback, learn how to manage your emotions, parse through the critiques to identify the valuable nuggets of actionable feedback, and then make plans to address the necessary changes. Taken in the right frame of mind and with the proper emotional attitude, feedback can be an influential teacher that can help you deliver the best results.
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Oupa Mokoena |
By always providing feedback shows positive mindset of collaboration